Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Epilepsy??





I'm sure that many of you have heard bits and pieces about TJ's health this fall.  Some of this will be repeat information but I think it will be best for me to start from the beginning......

Friday August 15th it started.  During typing class, TJ noticed that he was not able to make his left hand hit the keys he was trying too hit.  He held up is hands and noticed that his left arm was "jerking" uncontrollably in a fairly slow rhythmic motion.  Jerk, jerk, jerk.... the school nurse had no clue what was wrong and no one really knew what to do other than give him a Tylenol and try to get him through until the end of the day.  He wasn't in pain but as the day went on his arm started to go numb and it got cold to the touch.  Very strange.  I took him to the family doctor as soon as he got home from school and he had no clue.  "I'm stumped" were his exact words.  I asked him to try to find a neurologist who could give an opinion and we went home not knowing any more than what we did when we started.

On the way home from the doctor I called our former neighbor, Larry Formanek who is a chiropractor in Knoxville.  I thought that maybe TJ might have a pinched nerve of some kind that could be causing the problems.  Larry agreed that it could be a pinched nerve and suggested that we find a local doctor who could take a look (thanks Larry!!) .  TJ's jerking stopped for a brief time that Friday night but started again Saturday afternoon and he slowly started to lose all the feeling in his arm from the elbow down.  I wasn't able to find a chiropractor on the weekend......Monday morning came with no change and we decided to consult with the neurologist just to rule out the possibility of a blood clot or stroke or other equally frightening things.  Lucky for us a new doctor had recently moved to town from Houston (Dr. Chris King) and he was able to see TJ right away.

Dr. King admitted TJ to the hospital and ordered several tests (two MRI's, an EEG, spinal tap and blood tests) with all results normal.  The only progress that was made was the discovery that an anti-seizure medicine given in an IV stopped the twitching in his arm.  Dr. King thought that he was possibly having what is called a "focal seizure" but since it was highly unusual, he just was not sure.  Referred us to Vanderbilt University.

I was NOT impressed with Vanderbilt.  Over 100 kids in the waiting room...doctors too busy to pay attention.  They asked us to bring TJ back for a week of in-patient testing during TJ's fall break the week of October 6th but really did not think that what we described was a seizure. They had no clue of what was wrong BUT they doubled his dose of the seizure medication anyway and made him as sick as a dog.  Does that make sense?  Nope, it didn't to me either.  Like I said...I wasn't impressed.  We decided to continue with the lower dose Dr. King had prescribed until TJ could have the additional testing done at Vanderbilt.   

About a week before the test was scheduled, TJ completely stopped taking the medication and didn't tell anyone that he had made the decision to do so.  (teenagers!!!)  When we found out that he was not on the medication and the arm-jerking had not returned, we (parents and Dr. King) decided to let him go without meds to see what would happen.  Maybe it was not a seizure?  

This was the perfect opportunity to try a chiropractor and that's exactly what we did.  I found a highly recommended office and was so very pleased to get a diagnosis--Thoracic Outlet Syndrome.  When I looked on the internet, all of TJ's symptoms could be found related to this syndrome.  We were so very happy......and so very relieved to FINALLY have someone tell us that they knew what was wrong. 

The bubble broke on October 31.  On the way to a speech team tournament in Cincinnatti, Ohio, TJ had a grand mal seizure.  Joe drove 8 hours to pick him up that night to bring him home and we watched and worried over him all weekend.  Dr. King put him back on the anti-seizure medication and asked us to bring him in on Monday.  Monday morning TJ had another seizure at school--this one was worse than the first and he stopped breathing for a time.  Luckily, he was able to feel the episode coming in time to get out of the classroom and to a safe place before it hit.  That is also highly unusual and we consider it to be a blessing.

We still do not know what is wrong or what has caused the seizures.  We are currently trying to find a doctor who can do a higher magnification MRI that will be able to give better results than what we can get in Murray (Vanderbilt wouldn't do the 2nd MRI even though they had the capability).  TJ has spent the past several weeks taking anti-seizure medications and having a VERY hard time with severe side-effects.  Lots of vomiting, confused thought processes, the room "spins" for hours and he usually sleeps about 18-20 hours a day.  He has not been able to go to school since November 2 and now has a teacher who comes to him 2 days per week so that he can try to get caught up on his classes.  As time goes on he is able to tolerate the medication more and more but as he gets better....they increase his dose and then it starts all over again.  (Apparently he needs to take a "minimum" dose in order to prevent further seizures--you have to build up to that "minimum" over time).  It has been a very difficult few weeks but TJ has tolerated all of it with an amazing attitude and without complaint.  I know I would not have done as well if I were in his shoes!  We are hoping and praying that he will be able to go back to school in January and that we will find a diagnosis soon.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Lauren's Birthday Party

October 10, 2008
OK--I got this big idea to throw a surprise birthday party for Lauren this year since she turned 13 and well, I love to throw parties but rarely get the opportunity. So.....I set about the task of trying to contact her friends without her knowing and with just a few days advance notice so they wouldn't be tempted to tell her about it! In Iowa this wouldn't be a problem because I knew everyone and most of her friends had parents who I grew up with. In Kentucky this was an entirely different scenario!! I had no idea of exactly who to invite (lots of first names....can't remember last names) or how to reach them.
I enlisted the help of our neighbor, Destiny who is in Lauren's class and I also checked out all her friends on Facebook--ended up getting help from one of the "Mom's" in contacting some of the kids (can I remember her name? I'm so blonde at the roots) and managed to get about 15 kids there that night.

My Mom had flown in to surprise me for MY birthday (the day after Lauren's) so right after Joe and Lauren headed to town on an "errand" we started to set everything up. Destiny came over to blow up balloons and in short order we had everything together. The plan was for all the kids to be on the back deck when Joe and Lauren came home and then we would send her back there for the big SURPRISE!! But in the chaos, I didn't have my phone with me and missed the text message from Joe that said "we're 1 minute away!" So as I was standing in the doorway, I saw the Jeep coming down the road and I yelled "THEY'RE HERE!!" and all the kids scattered in the back yard. Our back yard is kind of big so when Lauren went back there, they all popped up from way back in the woods....it was funny. Lauren took a minute to comprehend what was happening. It was fun.....roasted hot dogs, played rock band and flashlight tag and tried to blow out the stereo speakers.

The guys were a bit "outnumbered" and kept asking if more guys were coming.....

The food was awesome and the table looked great. We had a bonfire in the back yard for hot dogs and marshmallows and it was kind of a "halloween" theme. The cupcakes had black and purple frosting that turned your mouth black if you ate them!! Evan thought that was fun.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Kentucky Deer

Excellent deer Joe shot this past weekend!  His friend, Jeremy, has an awesome place to hunt near Madisonville, KY and has invited Joe and TJ to come enjoy the season with him and his family the past 2 years.   

In The Beginning

I had originally planned to create a web page for our family that was a part of my online business but after 8 years of selling dresses I've decided to put all of that to rest--finally. The website was the very last remnant of the bridal shop and I have clung to it......not willing or able to give it up. Not ready to REALLY accept the fact that the store is gone. Then it hit me. I finally realized that my family needs me and you know what? I need them too! I miss them!! For the past 8 years I have not devoted my full attention to my family because there was always an email or a customer or an order to box up and ship out. Enough is enough. Maybe later when the kids are grown and gone, I'll start up again but for now I'm on my way to being officially closed.

Key words being "on my way". I tried to cancel my web hosting account to take the website down and they immediately offered twice the service for half the price......I may leave it up for a while just to see what happens in the spring. I really hate to throw away something I've worked so hard at for so long. If it starts to make money again, it might be a way to try to finally SAVE some money? Imagine that....money in savings? I'll do what the Lord wants me to do. For now, there are no customers so its not really an issue.

So, the idea of the blog came back into my head and I remember my good friend Shara and how fun it is to read her blogs and see the awesome photos she posts there on a regular basis. Can I do it too? She always assured me that I could so I thought it was perfect timing. I'll put this together in time for Christmas and have a place for everyone to go see some photos and whatever else I can think of to put on here. Should be fun!

So, this is the beginning.....thanks for visiting and I hope you come back often to see what's new and exciting!